Top 10 Male Fantasies- Part 5

9. Sexual Ravaging

Contrary to what most women believe, when you fantasize about forcing a woman to have sex with you it's more about overpowering her through your amazing sexual technique and charisma than violence. She starts off saying "no" then can't help but say "yes," given the superhunk that you are. Conversely, if she's forcing you to have sex, you're indulging in a submissive sexual role quite unlike the one you probably have in real life.

10. Sex with Another Man

Same-sex fantasies or threesome fantasies involving another man are extremely common and don't mean you've got a secret wish to be gay. It just means you're sexually curious
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Have a Bed Picnic
Set up chilled wine and an ice bucket, foods you can eat with your fingers (fresh fruit, chocolates); have an erotic movie playing in the background on the bedroom VCR.
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5. Receiving Oral Sex

It's the quickest, most effective (sometimes the only) way we orgasm, so it's not surprising it features heavily in our fantasies. The guy of our dreams doesn't just like giving oral sex, he's so enthusiastic he'd actually like to climb inside and stay there for days. Often he's a sex slave: tall, drop-dead gorgeous, and musclebound.

6. Fantasies Involving Romantic Sex

This is the one most women readily admit to, probably because it's the most acceptable. Romantic fantasies are sex with emotional attachment and most read like a Harlequin plot: gorgeous man, incapable of loving one woman, meets us, is knocked over by our looks and headstrong personality, then ravishes us on a moonlit beach.
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Make every sexual encounter a cliffhanger

Write a list of every sex act you and your partner are prepared to partake in – anything from deep kissing and cunnilingus to bondage and anal sex. Snip the list up into pieces and place all the items in a jar. In a separate jar, drop in the names of every room in your home, plus all the surfaces you can comfortably fit on (tables, chairs, washing machine, etc). Then take turns picking out a 'token of love' from each jar and proceed with your very own 'whodunnit and where and when'
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7. Anal Sex

It doesn't mean you've got "gay tendencies." The anus is undeniably an erotic zone, especially for men. A lot of you would love to have her penetrate you with a finger--or want to have anal intercourse with her--but worry she'll think you're gay if you suggest it. So you fantasize instead.
8. Bondage and S & M

Being tied up is often a favorite female role, tying someone up is often a favorite male role--which works out rather nicely if you play this one out in real life! Bondage fantasies are usually about power--having it or relinquishing it, and both sides have their appeal. Bondage usually comes to mind because it's the subject of many scenes in erotic books and movies.

Sadomasochistic (S and M) fantasies are less common but certainly not rare. Sadism is getting off on inflicting pain on someone else; masochism is getting off on someone hurting you. Most mild S and M fantasies revolve around whipping and spanking. Pleasure and pain are inextricably linked in the minds of some people and, in reality, spanking increases blood flow to the genital area (and therefore turns us on biologically). Masochistic fantasies sometimes stem from subconsciously thinking sex is bad and that you need to be punished for liking it.
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Have sleepy sex and release the beast within

If you wake in the middle of the night aching for sex, act on this impulse before your mind kicks in and you start ticking off the hours till the alarm sets off. A bit of night-time pinch and tickle is one of the most liberating sexual experiences a couple can share. The sex invariably starts out slow and mellow but it doesn't take long for a certain wildness to creep in – before you know it, you'll be grunting and bucking like a couple of wildebeest.
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3. Sex with Another Woman

We're more likely to have same-sex fantasies than he is, probably because it's seen as more acceptable. We're also far less likely to get hung up on homophobic fears that we're gay. The woman featured isn't usually someone we know but she always knows exactly what to do to turn us on because she's got what we've got.

4. Something You've Never Tried Before

These fantasies can include being tied up, threesomes, group sex, and watching others, among other things. While many women are outrageously experimental and imaginative in their fantasies, they often don't admit a desire for anything "kinky" to a partner for fear of being judged. Playing out the scenario in your head is the next best thing. For those who are open, fantasizing is also a form of rehearsal, upping the anticipation of experiencing it in reality.
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Intensify your orgasms

It's not uncommon for women to go through patches where their orgasms seem to lose their punch, so here's a simple path back to toe-tingling bliss (experiment alone first, then introduce your lover to the concept). It's called the start/stop technique and it works by taking you to the brink of orgasm (with finger stimulation or a vibrator), then pausing while the sensation ebbs, then resuming again. Do this three of four times before allowing yourself to come and you'll be stunned by the intensity of your climax

Enter a holding pattern

Men are stimulated during sex by the in-and-out motion of their thrusting, whereas women are more versatile, getting a buzz from a variety of lateral movements as well. Restricting your man's thrusts by climbing on top and dictating the pace will prolong your love-making while keeping him in a holding pattern until you're good and ready
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5. Voyeurism and Exhibitionism

Few people would be able to keep themselves from watching a couple having sex if they were guaranteed not to get caught. The reason that voyeurism is a popular fantasy for both men and women is that sex is private and mostly hidden.

Sure, we've seen couples do it on video, but it's rare we get to see the real thing. Exhibitionistic fantasies often revolve around others admiring you. You put on a fine show (of course) and the voyeur is usually envious of your sexual skills, desperately wishing they were the person you were making love to. It's an ego-boosting fantasy.

6. Having Your Partner Masturbate for You

Watching your partner "play with herself" is up there on most men's wish lists, possibly because it reassures them that women are as into sex as they are. Also, the related fantasy of spying on her while she masturbates appeals to your curious side: what is she really up to when you're not around?
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Take an erotic shower à deux

And if lathering each other up with rose-scented suds doesn't do the trick, try lowering the shower-head - many women find the jet of water brings them to a climax

Go side-to-side

If you've only ever managed to climax with him on top, try having sex side-to-side for a change, with his leg draped over your body. It gives the same level of clitoral stimulation and feels just as intimate. Another excellent alternative to the trusty old missionary is the coital alignment technique. For this, the bloke needs to slide a few inches forward from his usual position so that the base of his penis rubs your clitoris. Go for a gentle rock rather than a vigorous thrust. It's so good, you'll want your neighbours to be out when you give it a go
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Top 10 Female Fantasies- Part 1

1. Fantasizing About Your Current Partner

As with men, this is the number one sex fantasy for most women: things you've done, or would like to do, to your partner. It seems that the available flesh-and-blood is often more of a turn-on than the unattainable.

2. Sex with a Man Other Than Your Partner

For women, this is most often a past lover. Some women feel adulterous or guilty reliving a particularly hot session from the past: don't. It's normal.If it's someone new you're fantasizing about, it's the old want-what-you-can't-have-syndrome. Being involved with a partner doesn't mean all other desirable men go away. So those adulterous feelings have to be dealt with in one way or another. The safest outlet of all is our imagination--and it's remarkably fertile.
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Tease

Ladies, do you have friends over for dinner? Shove him up against the fridge, cup his penis with your hand, and give him a huge kiss while he's helping you in the kitchen. Chat innocently away to your guests while he hides out there, waiting for his erection to go down.

Go Without Underwear

This is one steamy idea even the least courageous of females can pull off. All you need to do is dress up for an evening out--and forget to put on your panties. You can either tell him about it, or "accidentally" show him by crossing your legs Sharon Stone style.
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3. Giving or Receiving Oral Sex

This is near the top of the list for both sexes. Fantasy fellatio has one vital ingredient: the woman doesn't do it to give pleasure. She does it to get pleasure.
Fantasies about giving her oral sex are common as well. Many women are more obviously turned-on by oral sex than intercourse and you, as the ultimate pleasure-giver, want to drive her crazy.

4. Sex with Two or More Women

If having sex with one woman feels good, having sex with two must double the fun. Throw in some lesbian lovemaking and this one sends most of you drifting off into la-la land. In your fantasy, you're superstud: capable of bringing both women intense multiple orgasms. However, studies show the vast majority of men don't want (and actually couldn't cope with) such sexual demands in real life.
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Oral Techniques for Her- Part 2

The Flick

Spread her outer vaginal lips with your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently flick your tongue around her clitoris. Feel free to roam, but keep coming back to her clitoris, as it is the most sensitive. This drives some women wild, and others find it to too intense. When stimulating her clit make sure to start out gently if you aren’t sure how she likes it. When you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstasy or pain.

The following techniques should not be introduced until your partner is really hot (i.e., very wet). These are more intense techniques, and may be too intense for some women, even when nearing orgasm.

The Clitoris Suck

Expose her clitoris by spreading her lips and lightly pull back her hood. With her clitoris exposed, give it a quick little suck; pulling it into your mouth briefly and letting it go. This is a lot like licking a bit of cake batter off of your pinky. This feels incredible, and is a fine thing to do if you feel like tormenting her – but don’t overdo it! We recommend not using your teeth nor using heavy suction when starting out.

The Clitoris Hold

Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently suck on it, simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense orgasm.
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Top 10 Male Fantasies- Part 1

1. Fantasies About Your Current Partner
No kidding. This is the number one sex fantasy for most men: things you've done, or would like to do, to your partner. (It's her top fantasy too, by the way.) Why? Because available flesh-and-blood is often more of a turn-on than the unattainable.

2. Having Sex with a Woman Other Than Your Partner
Often, she's a past lover, a friend of your partner, perhaps a celebrity. The psychology behind this one isn't too difficult: lots of people long to have sex with someone new and fantasy is a great way of indulging this longing without losing your partner in the process.
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