Cuckolding and Swingers- Part 3

Jealousy

Yes, jealousy is a turn-on for cuckolds. In fact, it is probably one of the greatest ones, though few cuckolds have written about it. After all, look what he has lost: his wife's faithfulness, his wife's body (temporarily, if not permananently), his equality as a sexual partner, his dignity... and all these have been given to another man! Personally, when I began to feel jealous, I began to feel truly cuckolded - and very excited!

Voyeurism

Though I think this is secondary to the two reasons above, it is true that there are not many opportunities in life to watch two people having sex. This is why home videos are so popular! But nothing can equal the real thing, life and in front of you... and so, inviting another man into your wife's bed will undoubtedly give you a front-row seat for the festivities.

Fear

One cuckold explained his excitement as "caused by the duality of being both afraid and excited. Fear is a powerful aphrodisiac... maybe my body requires a certain amount of adrenaline, which can only be generated by fear."


What is there to fear? A cuckold can fear (while being turned on by) the thought of being humiliated in front of his wife and her lover; he can fear being told he cannot cum for a specified (and lengthy) period of time. He can fear hearing sounds of pleasure from his wife that he never heard when she was in bed with him. Or, he can just fear the unknown...
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Cuckolding and Swingers- Part 2

Why Would Someone Choose to be Cuckolded?

Submission

Being cuckolded is often a display of total submissiveness, with the added element being that at least one other person (the lover) knows of the cuckold's role. Cuckolds may take pleasure in serving their wife and, in some cases, her lover as well. If a person wishes to experience submission, bringing breakfast in bed to his wife and her lover would surely fit the bill; and if he wants to feel dominated by his wife, having her tell him to leave them alone so they could make love undisturbed would be almost unbearably exciting! In addition, the knowledge that she can do whatever she wants with regard to sex, while he is restricted to only what she approves for him, is probably the ultimate in submission: he turns over his genitals to her, while she offers no such commitment in return.

Humiliation

Many swingers and alternative-lifestyle adherents draw the line at humiliation, and reject it with disgust. Yet these same people will accept s&m as understandable! Humiliation is, in my opinion, simply mental s&m. Why would someone choose to be "disciplined," and find it to be sexually exciting? If you can understand that, you can understand the lure of humiliation as a sexual stimulus. And if a man seeks to be humiliated, what could be more humiliating than seeing, or hearing, or learning of his wife choosing another man to bed? If the experience includes the wife acknowledging that her lover is better endowed, or a better lover than her husband, the humiliation is complete.
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Cuckolding and Swingers

Cuckolding is a minor part of the swinging lifestyle but this niche seems to be increasing. It also seems to involve more interracial activity. Here is info regarding this niche:

WHAT IS A CUCKOLD?

The word "cuckold" probably comes from the practice of the cuckoo bird. The female cuckoo mates with an alpha-male, who then moves on to encounters with other females. The female then returns to her mate, and the two of them raise the babies which resulted from mom's "night on the town."

Traditionally, a (human) cuckold was the object of scorn and derision; when it was discovered that a man's wife had found fulfillment in another man's bed, she was an adulteress and he was her cuckold. It was often said that he "left with his tail between another man's legs."

The dictionary defines a cuckold as "a man with an unfaithful wife."

In the context of alternative lifestyles, the cuckold occupies a position somewhere between the traditional definition and that of "swingers." The difference with the first definition is that today's cuckold is both aware of his wife's "infidelity" and is sexually excited by it; the difference with the second definition is that "swingers" are mutually involved, or at least approach the sex bed as equals, which is not the case with a cuckold.

In plain English, a cuckold is a man who stands by and accepts his wife's infidelity, being sexually excited by her actions. He may have normal sexual relations with his wife part of the time, or he may accept that his wife has chosen another man to replace him completely in her sexual bed.
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What MILFs Enjoy In Bed

1. Sensuality
For most women being touched all over their body, including being passionately kissed is a great turn on.

2. Massage Oils, Lubricants and Warming oils
Women often enjoy the feeling of being pampered and the increased sensation that lubricants and massage oils bring.

3. Legs Over Your Shoulders
This position allows a woman to have her g-spot better accessed and is quite pleasureful.

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Sex Kit for Swingers

You can accessorize your kit by adding rabbit fur, vibrators, dildos,or whatever else might make your evening memorable. You can remember these motto’s: “be prepared (Boy Scouts) or “adapt & improvise” (Marines) but I prefer: Semper Paratus, which is Latin for the Coast Guard’s motto “always ready.”
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Swing Clubs

What is a Swing Club?

Swing clubs are usually defined as any organization, formal or informal, which exists to provide swinging activities. Swing clubs exist in a variety of forms. These include Swing Clubs, Party Houses, Circles and Socials, Bars and Cocktail Lounges and Contact Services. All but the contact services may be on-premises or off-premises. Contact services work through the mail or telephone and rarely provide swing parties although they may promote group travel. Parties given by on-premises swing clubs may have from ten to sixty or more couples, though twenty to forty couples is the common average. On-premises means that sexual activity occurs at the party. Off premises swing clubs, cocktail lounges and bars help you to meet other swingers. Swinging will be elsewhere with the interested couples and singles responsible for the arrangements. The arrangements include who is to be invited, the location, date and time.

The on premises party offers a wide possibility of social interaction, selection, potential of swinging with others in a foursome, threesome, one-on-one, or in a group scene. Bisexual as well as heterosexual swinging is possible, principally among women. And the club on-premises party offers this without pressure in a structured environment. Private, semi-private and group rooms are generally provided to meet the desires of virtually everyone. Heated pools, Jacuzzi’s and hot tubs may be available to accent the social environment.
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Sexual Fantasy

Yes, virtually every woman wants or will share her body with another woman. Are you jealous because you get left out? Don't be, most of these women want their man to watch them while they work... or play, as the case may be.

"The idea of touching another soft, hairless body and softly sucking her tongue, amongst other things. Actually that does sound pretty inviting, but won't it be difficult for you guys to sit in the corner and just watch? After all, these women don't want you to participate -- okay, one of them did.
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Interracial Swinging

Interracial swinging is another facet that's open to those in the swinger lifestyle. As in normal society, there are also a vast mixture of ethnicicities within the swinger community. This offers swingers the opportunity to engage in interracial sex encounters without the judgemental eyes society places on those outside of the community.

Many times women have fantacized about having sex with a black or latino male or vise versa. There are also men that like watching and/or participating when other races are involved. Within a swingers community its just like any other sex encounter ... its all for the fun of having sex! I had one veteran offer me this piece of advice: If it can help you explore the erotic sexual side of yourself, and there are no adverse reasons - why not just have fun and try everything?!
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Doing It In Public

Does it turn you on to do it in public?

Listed here are the best places to slip away for some sex without getting caught. Granted, I already know about the movie theater, the backseat of your car at "Inspiration Point" and the airplane restroom, but how about the college classroom, the train car or the coat check room?

1- The shopping mall

Anyone who's ever worked at a mall knows about those rear walkways used to connect stores. The doors are usually open and no one's patrolling them most of the time. Just wait for the shoppers to look the other way and duck inside a "Mall Personnel Only" door. And because those back walkways are so quiet, it's easy to hear footsteps approaching.

2- Empty university classroom

Ever been bored in class and wondered what better use you could put that lecture hall to? Schools usually post a schedule of when each room is free and when it's in use. Just take note of an opportune time and show up. Universities being the trusting types, often these rooms remain open. Now if you can dodge the janitor, you're in. Don't forget to leave the lights off so as not to attract any attention.

3- The park

Ah, a day at the park. Here a spot deep in the woods is probably no good because of poison ivy, deer ticks and an assortment of other hazardous plants and creatures. So find a hidden grassy spot somewhere out of sight.

You're best off heading there at sunset or at night, when there are less people, and choose a spot that has some kind of obstacle that you can hide behind long enough to pull up your pants, should you get caught.
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Swinging Lifestyle

More and more people are getting into swinger life style as this give couples and individuals a break for the senseless tension and demanding stress in their daily life. Refreshing sex is the best antidote to relieve stress.

A swinger lifestyle teaches you to give and take pleasure like the way you have never experience before. Online swinger clubs helps you to get in touch and later get in bed with people who are from different regions, locales or even nations. It makes you aware of a whole new culture and the many different ways to make love.

When you experience a swinger’s life style you would enjoy the power of a touch, the romance of a kiss, the meaning of fondles and the excitement of a caress.
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What Will She Try?

The following survey was done on Cosmopolitan.com, asking the ladies if they'd be game for putting a little variety into their sex lives. Here's what they said...




Which of the following have you ever tried?

57% - Light Bondage
30% - Exhibitionism
15% - Videotaping
33% - Sex Toys
23% - Role Playing
31% - None of the Above
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Swinger Myths

Swingers have little outside social activity other than swinging.

Again, it is patently false, since most swingers have children, and they have many social activities that they do as a family. What the researchers fail to understand is that swinging is not just about sex, and they assume that whenever swingers get together, it is purely sexual. Swingers do make friends with each other, and they do get together in non-sexual situations. The friendships you can make are so intense that many people tend to spend less time with their old "straight" friends, preferring to do social activities with their swinging friends. There is an openness, sense of fun, and lack of need to censor yourself when you are with swinging friends that is very different from what most people experience with traditional friendships. These are real friendships, not just based on sex.
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